Life gets complicated
If a person is good to you, do
(1) genuinely thinks that he is good to you
(2) suspects that he is up to something, or wants something in return
Do you choose 1 or 2?
I was in Russia for their festival. After our show, we have people coming up to tell us how great our show was. I was really happy that people enjoyed it. It was such an honor to be there and get praises. So I was telling this person how glad i am, till she replied 应酬而已。
Why cant we just believe what people say? Why must there be a hidden agenda behind what people are saying?
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caribkindred said,
June 9, 2009 at 10:30 am
Because there usually is a hidden agenda. The odds of people saying exactly what they mean and meaning what they say are so slim that it’s mathematically acceptable to assume that everyone is a lying, deceitful dirt bag.
Char said,
June 9, 2009 at 10:36 am
Well… I think society has made it such that ppl are no longer kind to each just so. Unless u are close friends, if not then u need to judge based on the situation.
wanjing said,
June 9, 2009 at 12:36 pm
1) tell her that you agree! then add that she’s very pretty. lol
2) buy some grapes, give a few to her, warn that it would be sour.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jH8gtrD4_C4
brudder said,
June 14, 2009 at 2:15 am
LOL I LIKE WHAT WANJING SAID HAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA!!
especially her #1 LOL